The Power of Deadlines

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So why am I, an otherwise respectable sixty-something male, engaged in an activity as disreputable as blogging?

One reason is the power of deadlines.

I’ll explain. Dawn and I are constantly urging people to write their life stories—to leave a tangible record of their life’s experiences. The main excuse we hear for not writing is: “I can’t find the time.” (This is my own favorite, by the way.) I suspect the real reason is the absence of a deadline. We all find time to do the things that have to be done. I spent my entire legal career working against deadlines. If there’s a closing date, I’ll get it done.

I’ve resolved to create an every-week deadline to post something here, rain or shine. I’m hoping this won’t end up on the same trash heap as my resolution to lose ten pounds. The fact that I’ve committed publicly, however, may be the spark I need.

Another reason for blogging: While lots of folks do it, not many of them are my age. We sexagenarians need greater representation in the blogosphere! Perhaps if I write about my life, it will inspire you to write about yours. It may give you ideas of things to write about and ways to write about them. (Or maybe my writing will be so bad you’ll learn how not to do it. You be the judge.)

Dawn, who is a marvelous writing instructor, is going to have a blog about writing at her site, Memoir Mentor. It isn’t up and running just yet, but it should be within the next couple of weeks. If you’re interested in concrete writing tips, be sure to check in with her regularly. And, by all means, check out our podcasts, posted on both our sites.

In contrast to Dawn’s blog, I see mine as more of a personal story than an overt writing lesson—source material for the memoirs I plan to write someday.

Ainsleigh, kindergarten.jpgOf course, personal blogs are also great for keeping in touch with friends—old and new. My niece, Sarah Ostler Hill has a blog called Raising Redheads full of wonderful stories and photos of her young children, Ainsleigh and Donovan. Visit it and you’ll be guaranteed a smile when you see Ainsleigh going off to her first day of kindergarten.

My nephew’s wife (does that also make her my niece?), Sariah Ong Reeder, has a blog called Simply Sariah which provides much-appreciated information about her daughter Gwynneth and her new son Erik (who was born two months earlier than expected). My cousin, LeeAnn Ashcroft Smith has a blog called Time for Joy with a scrapbook containing colorful bunches of family photos.

My son, Matt, takes a more intellectual approach. He is a regular blogger on the Sunstone Blog, which discusses Mormon issues of all kinds. His latest is called On Violence and Richard Dutcher’s “Falling”, an interesting post with lively comments concerning Richard Dutcher’s as yet unreleased film.

Blogs can serve as fantastic communicative devices. Our dear friend, Liz Christensen, recently discovered a brain tumor while serving a mission with her husband, Herb, in Armenia. She was rushed home to have surgery and is currently undergoing radiation treatments. Her many friends and family all over the world keep in touch with her latest developments through a blog called Elizabeth Ann Cook Christensen, set up by her son Brad. What a wonderful way to communicate widely—something that could not have been possible when I was younger.

So there it is. This blog exists because I need a deadline to write, because people my age don’t often blog, and because others have inspired me. I hope you’ll find what I say interesting. Be sure to leave a comment now and then, since I’d like to know if anyone is reading—but, of course, that isn’t the main thing.

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Well, one blog post in and you've already established yourself as a bloggeur par excellence. I look forward to further "That's A Morrie" musings.

I've been wanting to start my own personal blog for a couple of years now since 90% of what inspires me to write falls outside the narrow confines of SunstoneBlog... but alas, "I can't find the time."

Good luck with your deadlines. BTW, I'm putting the over/under at "5" posts before you miss your first deadline. I'm taking bets at www.morriemissesdeadline.com .

Hey Morrie:
I'm seeking approval for comment by the site owner! How the heck are you? So, you write to Anna Kwan but not to me?!?!?

Your new website is fabulous. My sister is starting up a new site similar to this one and she's all caught up in the selection of colors, fonts, formats, links, tabs, etc. Your screens are just perfect (as usual).

I'm loving my new job -- everything is going well and I'm enjoying all the new experiences. I spoke at Volcom's International Sales Meeting (in France) in June, and will be travelling to Germany at the end of this month. Just what I'd always dreamed of -- mixing travel and work, at a do-able pace.

Anyway, just wanted to say hello. Hope to cross paths with you again soon. Best regards, --Patty

Hey,

So I just discovered your blog thru Lisa's blog. I saw a link on the side to Uncle Morrie's blog and I was like, "huh, Uncle Morrie has a blog." So I decided to check it out and then I discover that I've actually been mentioned.

I agree, so far my blog has been a great way for me to journal. I know if I don't write down the interesting things Gwynneth and Erik do now, then I won't remember later. It also helps me keep in touch with family and friends.

I took a memoir writing class at BYU, and I think what you are doing is a great thing. I'll have to encourage my parents to start one too. It's fun to hear stories of their childhood and stuff that is happening now.

(P.S. Matt says that I would be a niece-in-law.)

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